Children: Khalil Gibran

Khalil Gibran //
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said,
“Speak to us of children.”

And he said:
“Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children, as living arrows, are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and he bends you with his might that his arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so he loves also the bow that is stable.”

Khalil Gibran was a Lebanese-American poet, writer, and philosopher best known for his timeless work The Prophet. Born in 1883 in Lebanon, he later moved to the United States, where his writing blended Eastern mysticism with Western thought. His work explores love, freedom, and the human spirit, making him one of the most widely read poets in the world.

A profound reflection on parenthood, Children reminds us that children are not possessions, but souls with their own destiny. Gibran beautifully urges parents to offer love without control, allowing individuality to flourish. The poem lingers as a gentle yet powerful call to nurture, not shape, the lives entrusted to us.

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